Sunday, September 23, 2012

Gloria Schwab Richardson

Gloria Schwab Richardson
(February 9, 1962 - September 21, 2012) 
Our wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, educator, coach, and friend Gloria Schwab Richardson, passed away peacefully surrounded by family on September 21, 2012 after a valiant battle with breast cancer. Gloria was born February 9th, 1962 in Provo Utah to Marvin and Jeanne Schwab of Afton Wyoming. Gloria inspired many people. She was an all-state athlete in volleyball and basketball graduating from Star Valley High School in 1980. Gloria received her bachelors and masters degrees from Utah State University and her administrative degree. She taught middle and high school in Utah and California and served as principal at Provo Canyon School. She also taught early morning seminary in California. She received the K-12 Administrator of the Year from Utah State University in 2012 and received a standing ovation for her accomplishments. She married her sweetheart, Terry Richardson in 2003. Family was always first in Gloria's life. Grandma Glori was a hero and a role model to her grandkids. We will always remember and cherish the special times and the memories made with her. She will always be with us. Gloria has a strong testimony of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and shared it with many.
Gloria is survived by: husband, Terry; daughters, Janell (Brandon), Jenni (Jared) and grandchildren: Brickman, Teagan, Cali and soon to be born Cannon.
In lieu of flowers - hold the hands of your sweetheart. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Sept. 26, 2012 at 11 a.m. at the Eagle Mountain East Stake Chapel. A viewing will be held at the church Tuesday from 6 to 8 p.m. and Wednesday from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m.
Interment, South Morgan Cemetery at 3 p.m.

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Services For Mom


Services for my wonderful mom:
We are having a viewing and funeral service in Eagle Mountain, UT at the Eagle Mountain East stake center (4506 east pony express parkway, eagle mountain)
 and the gravesite service in Morgan, UT. (South Morgan cemetery)

Viewing: Tuesday sept 25th 6-8pm
Viewing: Wednesday sept 26th 9-10:30am
Funeral service: Wednesday sept 26th 11am
Gravesite service: Wednesday sept 26th 3pm

Love you mom!

Friday, September 21, 2012

Our Wife, Mother, Sister, and Grandma passed on this morning. We love you!



We wanted to let everyone know that my Mom passed away with her family around her this morning.  She had the opportunity the evening before to have a very spiritual and wonderful moment with all of us.  We thank you for all of the support and love you have shown to her and our family through out the end of her time with us. 

I SEE the MOUNTAIN!                                                                                                                                                              A
by Susi Skelton
September 20, 2012

Gloria once asked her doctor, “Look at that mountain. What do you see?” He said, “I don't know what you're asking.” She said, “Exactly, it's all in the perspective. I SEE the mountain!"  Gloria Schwab Richardson, my special friend and sister in the Lord, has the most amazing, uplifting, unique and positive perspective on life.
Where others look at the real, physical mountains around us and see just huge masses of dirt and stone, she sees the BEAUTY in the miracles of God’s handiwork, the BEAUTY of life all around her. And she takes time to think about it and appreciate it.
Where others look at the “mountains of life” (or problems) and see nothing but huge obstacles in their paths, “Glori” has always seen the “mountain” as a challenge, waiting to be conquered. If someone tells her she “can’t” she goes to work figuring out exactly how she CAN.  When others look at the “mountain”, become discouraged and give up, she starts planning how to climb over it, go around it or tunnel right through it. She will not be denied, discouraged or stopped when she sees a need or has a goal.
When someone tells her she will be” lucky to put cookies in a cookie jar” she says “You’re wrong. I can do more.” And she educates herself, against all odds, and becomes a teacher, a coach, and a principal to “at risk” kids.  For her unflagging determination to never give up, her tenacity, her amazing attitude and her outstanding service to others she was given “The Administrator of the Year Award” by the very same university that told her years earlier that she would be “lucky to put cookies in a cookie jar”!
She certainly has done MORE, a lot MORE, MORE than anyone ever expected.  She has raised two little girls all by herself for years, and instilled them with a deep faith in God. And they have grown up to become beautiful, wonderful, productive, spiritual women, who are now passing on those qualities to their own children. She has become a loving, kind, attentive, fun and adored “Gramma Glori” to her grand children, playing with them, teaching them and loving them with all her heart. Even in the face of the biggest challenge of her life, cancer, she has had the most POSITIVE, UPLIFTING attitude, cheering up everyone else around her, when most would think that she was the one in need of cheering. She lights up her surroundings wherever she goes.
Glori has taught me to FIGHT for what I want and need, even when the odds are against me, and to NEVER GIVE UP.  She has taught me to have a POSITIVE ATTITUDE, even when things look bleak. She has taught me to have COURAGE in the face of adversity, to have HOPE and DETERMINATION in every aspect of life. She has taught me to maintain a SENSE of HUMOR  even in the darkest hours.  She has taught me to be a better woman, a better wife, a better mother, a better sister, a better daughter, a BETTER PERSON.  She has given me the precious gift of learning to CHERISH  EVERY  MOMENT  I have on this earth. She has also taught me to have FAITH IN THE LORD when many in this world doubt Him, and to RELY ON MY SAVIOR  at all times, and in all things and in all places. I am so privileged to have know her. I love her with all my heart.
Glori, your influence in this world, for the BETTER  will NEVER be forgotten and your legacy will live on FOREVER!!! I love you with all my heart for being the AMAZING WOMAN you are.
 
Now, finally, I, too, SEE THE MOUNTAIN! 
 
Thank you, Glori, for that!

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Fight For Glori!

Fight For Glori Session Gloria Schwab Richardson is a wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, friend, retired school teacher, administrator, and coach.... and MY MOM.

In 2003 she was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer. She underwent a lumpectomy and radiation therapy. However, in 2010, she was again diagnosed with cancer. This time, State IV breast cancer. She had a double mastectomy and is still receiving chemotherapy. Because of her illness, she had to retire last November. This year she was awarded the "K-12 Administrator of the Year Award." Just two weeks ago, she learned that she is terminal. They have given her 1-2 months to live.

Her sweet neighborhood is doing a fundraiser to help raise money to help pay for the medical bills. They put a facebook page together and I am doing mini sessions to help to towards the cause.

If you are interested, please go to the facebook page
(https://www.facebook.com/groups/108285775989925/)
and contact Donna Phenald or Cindy Muller, and purchase a session from them. They will give you a voucher and then we can schedule your photo session.

Here is an article on my mom: (http://www.ldschurchnews.com/articles/62499/I-see-the-mountain---Winning-battles-with-a-positive-attitude.html)

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FIGHT FOR GLORI session includes:
***Mini Photo Shoots (30 min session)
***(max 6 people, $5 each additional person)
***15-20 of your most favorite images on a CD

We are selling as many sessions as we can until September 29th.
So contact Donna or Cindy on the facebook page and get your voucher!
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Friday, September 14, 2012

With mom at the hospital

Here at the hospital with my mom. She didn't get much sleep last night, so is sleepy today. Terry said that she probably would love to have visitors tomorrow or sunday. So if you were wanting to see her, the chemo is starting to get out of her system so she isn't as loopy. Just text or call me or terry before because we don't know when she is going home yet. thanks for all the prayers.


Back in the Hospital

Update:
Two days ago, dad and Brandon took mom to the hospital on Dr. Rich's orders.  They did a bunch on tests and scans.  Today Dr. Rich came in and gave them results of the scans.  There is more fluid in there lung that they are going to drain off today and they are also going to do a MRI today.  And the cancer in her liver has doubled in size.

The Dr. gave them two options that they can do.
- stop the chemo and manage the pain with meds and send her home
or
- try another chemo that has 20-30% chance of working.
They have not made a decision on this yet.  It is something they want to decide on as a couple. 

Mom doesn't really want visitors right now at the hospital.  The room is super tiny that she is in.  She would prefer to be at home.  So more tests today and hopefully she can get some rest.

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Fight For Glori

Fundraiser that the neighbors are doing for my parents.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/108285775989925/







Gloria Schwab Richardson is a wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, friend, retired school teacher, administrator, and coach.

In 2003 she was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer. She underwent a lumpectomy and radiation therapy. However, in 2010, Gloria was again diagnosed with cancer. This time, State IV breast cancer. She had a double mastectomy and is still receiving chemotherapy. Because of her illness, she had to retire last November. This year she was awarded the "K-12 Administrator of the Year Award." Just two weeks ago, she learned that she is terminal.

Gloria has spent her life in service to others. As she fights this battle, we are doing all that we can to alleviate some of the financial burden that this disease has placed upon Terry and her.

Gloria's favorite saying comes from a friend: "Yagottawanna." It's a motto she lives by. So, we "wanna" help Gloria and Terry.

We have received an out pouring of support from friends and businesses who are providing services. If you are interested in purchasing these services, please message me. Cindy will be out of town until the 15th, so please do not contact her before then!!

If you would like to make a donation, please go to or call Utah Community Credit Union. An account has been set up for donations.

Thank you all for your support!

Fundraiser Organizers,

Donna Phenald & Cindy Muller
 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/108285775989925/

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Glamor shot. Really??

Deer in the headlights

The hair kept falling out my the handfuls. I showered then told sherry. Let's cut it off.  I'm trying to hold onto my oxygen with my nose. Feeling much better. Tumor markers are stable. Cancer is not growing at this Time. 

Monday, September 3, 2012

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Home tomorrow??

Mom had a pluralsantisis or something like that.  :)  Where they go in and suck the fluid out of her lung with a needle.  They got around 600 ml of fluid out of her right lung.  The doc said that they will see how she is doing tomorrow and she may go home! :)  She's pretty excited to get out of that stinkin' hospital!  Honestly, she looks great!  She has her cute little rosy cheeks back and she's doing great.  They are looking into having home health care come by her home for a little while.  I haven't gotten all the details on that.

Oh, and she opened her anniversary gift from dad today!  She was pretty excited.  It's a couple days early because he has to be at a conference on their anniversary.  But she got an ipad!  and a super cute teal case for it.  She said, "Shut up!"  when she opened it. :)  Love my mom! :)

Monday, August 27, 2012

Lung

Mom had a good day today. She got more rest. When i got there, they took her back to surgery to get a catheter drain put in her lung. While she was in surgery, they told her that there was too much scar tissue. They won't be able to put it in. Mom told the doctor to just drain as much as he could and not to worry about the catheter. The doctor said that was a good idea so that is what they did.

Doctor Day

This morning was Doctor Day for mom.  She had doctor after doctor after doctor come in and talk to her.  They are going to put in a drain thing in her lung.  (sorry I don't know all the technical names)  They are doing to do that sometime today.  Also, they are going to continue her chemo treatments.  Dr. Rich said that if everything goes well, we are looking more at a year to a year and half with my beautiful mom.  If the chemo doesn't react well, then we are looking at 3-4 months.  So let's pray that the chemo works!  Love you mom!

Update on my mom...

My mom wanted me to do a blog update.  A lot has happened since she last posted.  I am going to just start where we are now. 

Last week, mom started to get some really bad pains in her abdomen. She called her doctor, and he said to go to the ER.  So on Sunday night (the 19th), she went.  She was thinking... ok, I'll go to the ER and then be home Monday or Tuesday.  Not the case.  She went in, was in EXTREME pain, so they gave her lots of meds.  They didn't know what was causing the pain.  They thought it might be the fluid in her lungs, so they drained it and started treating her with antibiotics for "pneumonia". Still had pain.  They did a bunch of scans.  She still had the pain.  Then she had an allergic reaction to the antibiotic.  Her heart rate jumped clear up and her other vitals went really low.  They quickly got that under control, but the meds that they gave her made her really loopy and hallucinate.  She was not acting like my mom at all.  She then became really lethargic and really sleepy.  She would be talking to you and then her eyes would roll back in her head and she would fall asleep.  She texted me some really random texts that didn't make any sense... something about Illinois.??  and Terri warming up the polio. ??  Which was funny but weird.  Then finally she came out of the loopiness.  She started to act like my mom again.   They said that they thought the pain was coming from a "hot spot" on her liver that the cancer was causing.  I went home thinking all was great and they would get this all under control and she would be going home.

The next morning, Jared and I went to the hospital, and everyone was sad.  She just talked to the Doc.  (I wasn't there... so this is all what other people have told me...) but he told her that there is a lot of fluid in her lungs which is making it hard to breathe.  there is also fluid around her heart which is causing her heart to work twice as hard and start to enlarge.  Then I also heart that she may have some fluid in her heart as well.  He told her that this is serious.  And basically she has weeks to months until it will take her life. 

So not the news any of us wanted to hear.  I've been crying a lot.  I know Heavenly Father's plan for us, and I know we will all be together... but it still sucks.  So that's where mom is right now.  She is in the ICU.  She hasn't been getting very good sleep and is very tired, but is still happy and smiling and such an inspiration to everyone.  I love her so, so much.

The doctor is thinking about putting in a drain in her lungs to help with the fluid in them so she doesn't have to keep getting poked in the back with that huge needle to get the fluid out... which increases the chances of getting a punctured lung... but that's still in the works.  Well, I'm going to go get ready so I can go see my mom.  :)

Here are a few pics:









Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Blog addresses

Hi Everyone! :)  So I was fixing my mom's blog because the background decided to disappear, and when I did, the list of friends and family's blogs that she had on the side disappeared.  sheesh!  My mom likes to stay updated on all her friends lives, so if you have a blog, let me or my mom know the URL so I can add it to her list on the side.  You can send it to: jenni.skelton@yahoo.com or put it below as a comment.  Thanks so much!
Jenni

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Doctor Whirlwind

Wow what you have to do to get a trip to Star Valley.....  Unbelievable.  Yesterday, Jenni and I along with Cali headed to Provo to get blood tests and to get a bone strengthening shot.  We got the results--which were quit low, but not real low... AKA-- I need to stay away from people. .. NO HUGGING... I am so sad, because I am a huggy person.  Also, my Oxygen was only 82... very concerning that I am going to be at High altitude.  So we left our Provo appointment and Jenni asked??? whats wrong mom?  Nothing. Mom whats wrong?  Kelly is leaving and I started to cry.  I can't believe I cried.  She is leaving Dr. Rich's office and her family is moving.  I should take things so serious.  I will miss her, she has taken care of me for the last 2 years. 
After leaving Provo, we headed to Salt Lake for appointment number 2.  My appointment was set for 11:30 we arrived at 11:05  we got into see the doctor at 1:15... FRUSTRATING, ANNOYING, UNPROFESSIONAL!!!  I understand if a doctor is running late.  I also understand its not so bad if the receptionist, acknowledges you and lets you know we are in the same room.  But nothing.... Yes the waiting room cleared out three times while we waited patiently.  Cali was a trooper... She laughed, and played, took a nap, diaper change, played again, talked up a storm and played with her grandma glori some more.  At about 1:00 I was getting kinda ticked and hungry.  I finally asked if the doctor had left the building or had an emergency or something.  They said no she was just running behind.   Behind, Behind, an hour and a half behind.  Whoa....  That is just crazy behind... Though I must tell you that Dr. Rich still has this doctor beat.  We have waited up to three hours for Dr, Rich so what you do is learn patience.  Lots and Lots of patience.    We finally got in to see the doctor and Cali wanted to be heard.  She talked and talked and talked and talked some more.  It was so cute.  The doctor hurried our appointment to try to get back on schedule.  She said there were overbooking of rooms.  really..... I watched at least a dozen people come and go.  Patience Gloria, Learn more patience. 
We finished up my appointment at about 1:50 or so.  We were not STARVING.  (you know when you're so hungry that you stomach is growling and EVERYTHING looks good to you?)  This is how Jenni and I were feeling.  Just give us anything.  We headed to Costco... ran out of diapers at the doctors appointment.  After Costco we went across the street to Mimi's Cafe.  We both wanted something huge, but we kept it in tact and went with something more reasonable. 
So here it was 3:15 and we're FINALLY headed home.  Cali had had it.  She had a total melt down on the way home.  She was crying so hard, I felt so bad for her.  Jenni just kept it all in control.  We took the IKEA exit and changed her clothes.  She had a total poop attack.  Jenni took care of her and settled her down, and we got back on the road again.  Once again Total Melt Down.  it was a long ride home. 
So that was day one.  We get to start all over again TODAY.  Only this time I get to get a CT scan for possible blood clots in the lung.  See what I men about going to Star Valley.  I must have Doctors clearance. 

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Chemo - toleration

I am on a chemo that I am taking orally. I do take it daily which is "okay."  At least I don't have to go into the doctors office once a week and having an IV drip for hours.  I am on this Fourteen days on the Chemo-- Seven days off.  Believe or not I am tolerating the chemo quite well.  I am on my second round  of Chemo right now.  I finish my round on Monday.  I really have had no real nausea, side effects. After the third round the doctors will do more tests on me to see if the chemo is working.  I do get really tired during the day.  I am on oxygen all the time now.  It kidda freaks people out, especially at church.  I have an oxygen tank, a mask, and the hose come out of the mask.  What a mess.....  I am feeling better NOW then I did a year ago. Thank you to all those who have given me support Terry and I.  We love you!

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Church New Surprise


A HUGE Surprise came to me this morning as Terry brought me the LDS Church News and a handful of tissues.  "You may need these"  he said. 

In April of this year I received the "Alumni Administrator of the Year" from my Alma Mater, Utah State University.  A reporter for my hometown newspaper, the Star Valley Independent wrote an article that appeared in May.  Following it's appearance, she called me and asked if she could modify it and send it to the Church News.  I agreed thinking that there is no way it will ever appear.  How suprised am I???  I am also very humbled and honored and blessed.  What a tender mercy.  Thank you to all who have helped me and pray for me continually.  I Love You All!
http://www.ldschurchnews.com/articles/62499/I-see-the-mountain---Winning-battles-with-a-positive-attitude.html

Thursday, June 28, 2012

Eagle Mountain Fire

My Son-in-law took these picture that was outside of my house last week.  We were evacuated.

This one of  the neighborhood.  For more pictures of the fire .... Click on Silverstand Photography link.  Thanks Firefighters.  

6/18/12 Cancer Update

I have had a difficult time the past month.  When people say--No news is good news--It goes to say... I don't go by what people say.  I tend to clam up when things are not going as well as expected.  When I was teaching and the students would come into class... They would say, " Oh no, she's quiet today.  This is not good."  The students were right.  When Gloria is not talking there is something up.  Lets just say the world has been a whirl wind in my life.  In between the vacation, and family get together's, I have been dealing with complication in the cancer world.  It started with my blood levels being too low, thus NO Chemo.  Because I had no chemo the cancer grew.  It grew in the liver from 1%  to 10% of the liver.  It also grew in the lungs as well.  I have had a very difficult time breathing.  The doctors put me oxygen.  I have felt very weak, but I don't want to miss anything. So I went on Vacation-- I went to my nephew's wedding--  I went to the family reunion.  I have had a great TIME!!
I've gone through CT scans-PET scans and Chest Xrays--lets just say---I am sick on SCANS!!  After the results came back from the PET scan it was Not good news- The Dr. decided to get me on some Clinical Trials at the Huntsman Center in Salt Lake.  Terry, Jenni, Cali and I drove to Salt Lake before the wedding on Friday the 7th of June.  The trial coordinators talked with Terry and I in length about two studies that were be done at the Huntsman Center.  The first study was very intense.  Bone marrow taps, daily blood tests and being in and out of the hospital everyday for a month to start with.  Then one or twice a week after that more blood tests along with other tests.  This trial was in it's first stages of research.  Terry and I decided No to this one, because it was so new and intense.
The Second Trial attacks the HER2+ cancer cells in the tumor.  The trial coordinator hope was to attack the  HER2+ cells, it would hopefully attack the HER2- cells as well.  I am HER2-.  This would come with some complications, diarrhea being the biggest downfall. YIKES....  They said hopefully my body would handle the severe diarrhea. Terry and I were leaning toward this trial.  We started reading the research and found that if I indeed went with this trial I would go without Chemo for about two months.  Meanwhile the cancer in the liver and in the lung would continue to grow.  
Meanwhile, back at the ranch, I had a fever.... for about 3 weeks now.  The fever comes in the evening and stays with me until morning.  It runs from 99.3 - 101.  I am typically run around the 96 degree range.  Terry and I were trying to figure out which study we should participate in.  Then my kidney started hurting, along with my lungs and stomach area.  I emailed the doctor, he told me to go to the Emergency Room.  
Long story short--I was put on an antibiotic's and the doctor, Terry and myself all decided that the trails were on a good choice at this time.  I was also put on Chemo (oral).  
Currently I am doing well.  I am feeling stronger.  I am having a difficult time breathing... Thus, I am on oxygen.  I am on the Chemo for 14 days and off 7 days.  I will do two cycles and we will see how I am doing at that time.  Keep the faith.... Thank you for the prayers on my behalf and on behalf of my family.  

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Family




My nephew got married the first week of June.  While in Bountiful we snapped some family pictures. What a great looking family.

Amazing Vacation

We spent our vacation in Believe it or not Salt Lake.  We rented a house.  To the left is the kids room...  Yes, there is a climbing wall.  Teagan scaled the wall without any problems.   We stayed in Draper at a really cool house.  It had a Theater Room, Pool Table, game table, fooze ball table, hot tub and trampoline.   There was three bedrooms, along with the kids room.  What a great place to spend with my family.  Here are a few pictures to recap a great 4 days.    Thanks Jocelyn for the memories!!  Love you!!